A style card from The Dating Social League
The Sentry
You keep the door shut, you vet hard, and you call the distance standards.
The blind spot
Nobody has ever failed your test. Nobody has been allowed to take it. You are certain you are protecting yourself from the wrong person, and you are, and you are also protecting yourself from every right one. The distance works. That is the problem. It has never once let you find out.
What this style attracts
People who will chase for a while, and people who give up quietly and leave you feeling proven right.
Where this style starts
Heal. Heal is the Stage that works on what put the door there, slowly, and it is the only order that holds.
This is 1 of 6. Yours is probably not this one.
24 questions, about 6 minutes, free, and no account. You get your own style, your own blind spot, and the Stage to start in.
Take the AssessmentThe other 5 styles
- The CertainI decide early, and then I defend the decision.
- The AuditorI gather evidence, delay the verdict, and call it standards.
- The ProviderI earn my place by being useful, and I keep the receipts.
- The DrifterI let it happen and I let it end, and I never name either one.
- The PerformerI become who they seem to want, and then I cannot hold it.
Educational, never diagnostic. The Dating Social League does not match people. We teach you how you date, so you choose better.