The questions you only ask at 1am.

Answered at length, without tactics and without calling anyone a villain. Read one, then find out how you decide.

• 7 minute readWhy you keep dating the same personDifferent names, same relationship. The reason is not bad luck and it is not your type. It is the part of choosing you have never watched yourself do.
• 8 minute readAm I ready to date again after divorce?Readiness after divorce is not a feeling and it is not a length of time. It is a short list of things that are either true about you or not yet true.
• 7 minute readChemistry and compatibility are not the same thingChemistry tells you the first 6 weeks will be good. Compatibility tells you year 4 will be. Here is how to test for the second one without killing the first.